Most men turn to sex therapy to learn better techniques. However, men need to pay more attention to the fact that it is important to know what their spouse likes in particular and often their sexual skills are not the cause of the problem.
If men make a mistake in sex, it is most likely due to one (or more) of the following:
1. Misconceptions of men: Low sexual desire of women means lack of attractiveness of men
When a man sees a beautiful woman passing by, he feels something inside him – something in his body. A woman’s attractiveness evokes emotion in a man’s genitals. Just seeing her partner can cause a partial erection.
But when a woman sees an attractive man, whether her partner or someone else, it is very rare for her genitals to feel warm or instantly wet. Instead, she only mentally realizes that the man she saw was handsome. Even with eager surprise and saying the phrase “What a charming man!” The female genitals do not show her that it is time for sex. The man’s desire is rooted in his body. His desire stems from his memory, imagination and imagination. Good seduction helps him to anticipate the moment and build a sexual fantasy.
2. Male frustration with female slower ability to have sexual arousal
The difference between the arousal paths of men and women is like the difference between a gas grill and a charcoal grill. Women like to be aroused and stimulated immediately, but in most physiological conditions they do not allow themselves to heat up quickly. And if he is aware of your frustration or boredom, his self-awareness will slow him down in arousal.
Solution: Take your time, enjoy the slow stimulation, and taste the temptation.
